Taking responsibility for a strong relationship

Are you taking responsibility for your part of a relationship, especially a new one?
If this relationship is important to you and worth continuing, are you both receiving and giving to it?

New relationships often fail because one person is having to do all the work. If the two are IMing or talking, one person is asking all the questions, while the other person is answering but not asking any questions. Other times, one person is making all the calls or arrangements for getting together.

Think of your relationships. If they are important to you, are you doing your share - but not all - the work?